Have you ever had someone in your life that you don’t particularly care for? I mean, it is on the verge of severely disliking them. Not quite to the point of hating but you just can’t stand them? I have one of those in my life right now. Perhaps I am a little more irritable because I am pregnant but I am pretty sure even if I wasn’t pregnant she would still be on my “fecal roster,” as my mother would call it. OOOO, I could just punch her.
I see this chick a good handful of hours each week…if you catch my drift. You know, the interesting thing is I used to like her. I mean we have never really been buddy buddy but buddy buddy goes two ways. I feel like when I first met her I made an effort to be kind, inviting, and nice to her. I offered to help with things…professionally and personally. Once I even offered to lend her some money because I overheard her saying she struggling. My friends and I have invited her to do things in the past but she has never tried on her end to make a friendship. Which is interesting because she has complained before about not having any friends to do anything with.
Lately though…and this has only been the last 4ish months, she has become quite the beotch! It isn’t because her and I are having a personality clash because I am not the only one that she is like this toward. She went from being a person you could talk to, to a person you don’t want to say anything to…for a few reasons. She responds in degrading tones, she can’t keep anything to herself that you may share with her, and she doesn’t even give you the attention that a kind, polite person would.
Side note….people, when someone is talking to you, look at them. Put your phone down, don’t answer calls that are coming in (you CAN call them back), keep your eyes off the computer or TV….just make them feel like you care….even if you don’t.
Okay back to Queen “B”–ever since she has gone to the dark side, become the wicked witch’s flying monkey…however you want to describe it….I just can’t stand her!! It is like she completely changed overnight and well–she kind of did!
Now that I can’t stand her, the little things drive me more and more nuts. For example, she sniffed, did the clear the nose into the throat thing (which by the way is SICK…if you don’t know what I am talking about you stick your tongue to the roof of your mouth and breath in through your nose from the back of your throat), or cleared her throat 84 times in ONE HOUR! That is right. I counted. But think of this…on an average day that I am around her and at that rate, I hear those disgusting noises 672 times! Would you get bugged too? I just want to scream “Blow your freakin’ nose!! Get some decongestant!!”
672 times. Seriously wouldn’t she drive herself as insane as she is driving me?